Dan Rice, Chopper 4
“You don’t ever want to become the story!”
It’s a saying I often heard repeated from the safety director of Helicopters, Inc., Paul Smith.
Unfortunately, he was the story Sunday night. The chopper community, and I, lost a dear friend that night.
Paul, his wife Donna and family friends were outside of Dock’s Oyster Bar on 40th Street and Third Avenue wrapping up a night of celebration when an out-of-control taxi took his life and seriously injured his wife, along with a 7-year-old child.
In addition to being the company safety director, Paul was my wife’s pilot in NewsCopter 7. Words cannot begin to describe the shock and utter disbelief of this event. Normally I have no problem writing these blogs. This time I am struggling emotionally. I usually do not have a personal interest in the stories I cover.
All of us were so deeply saddened by the event.
Helicopters, Inc., the company that operates all of the choppers for ALL of the broadcast stations in New York City, grounded the fleet yesterday, fearing lack of sleep and overwhelming emotions may cloud some people’s judgment. I do not remember that ever happening here before.
I have written blogs before about what a tightly knit community we are. Paul was not only a pilot for WABC-TV, he was the guy in charge of keeping all of the station’s choppers staffed and operating, along with the chopper of our sister station in Philadelphia, WCAU.
As I mentioned before, he was the safety director for the chopper company and traveled the country making sure all of the bases were operating safely. Just last month he was at WNBC talking to management and our assignment desk about safety and protocol in light of the crash in Arizona. Safety was something that he was both passionate and adamant about! That’s why I liked to work with him. That, plus he was a fun person to work with.
When you work with someone for many years, you create a very personal bond. Pilot Lars Andresen and I have flown together for close to eight years now. We are at a point where all I tell him is where to go.
Once there, he knows every move I am going to make with the camera and what angles I want … all without saying a word.
My wife, Shannon Sohn, and Paul had flown together for 10 years. It is only natural they had an even closer bond, more like a father and daughter.
At times (more than I care to acknowledge), Shannon would complain to Paul about things I did or (usually) did not do. He would come in the next morning and start telling me how mad Shannon was at me and that I better get my act together. He knew that would always lead to me defending myself and telling him how wrong Shannon was.
Armed with that knowledge, he would go to Shannon that afternoon and defend me and tell her where she was wrong. That would lead to Shannon coming home at night ready to argue with me, which would end the next morning with me coming to work and looking at Paul and saying, “Thanks, Paul!”
He would just start laughing and end with grin, saying , “You’re Welcome.” Trust me, the first chance I ever had to get him back, I would. And he would laugh just as hard when he was had.
Beyond work, he was more than a friend to Shannon and me. That is something that everyone echoed in the various interviews that were done yesterday. Not only were we friends with the Smiths, they treated us like family!
Just last summer we were over their house celebrating their youngest son Cale’s graduation from college. As we arrived with our little ones, Paul and Donna’s relatives hugged and kissed Shannon and warmly greeted me like we, too, were related.
Sure, some of the relatives and other guests had met us before, but it was clear to me that Paul would brag about Shannon and all that she had done, much like a father would of a daughter.
When his other son Corey started dating his girlfriend, they all sought Shannon’s approval. Not that it would have stopped him from dating her. However, if she did not think the girl was good enough for him, Shannon would hound and hound both Corey and Paul to find somebody better, like a sister would do to her brother.
Luckily, Shannon loves Meredith!
Then, over the summer, Paul celebrated his 60th birthday by going to Costa Rica with his family and friends. We were asked to go but could not because we already had another vacation planned. If we had only known what was about to happen.
Both Shannon and John Del Giorno made this point yesterday. Paul saw all of us go from 26ish-year-old kids with not a care in the world to responsible adults with families of our own. Along the way he taught us not only about aviation and the respect we need to show the machines we work with, but also how to enjoy what we have. The lesson: Treat everyone like family and have as much fun as you can.
Shannon and I saw Paul’s family last night. His wife suffered several broken bones in the accident and has a long road ahead to recover from her physical injuries. With all that she has gone through, she was still able to crack a few jokes and chuckle — like the Donna we know.
Corey and Cale are constantly by their mother’s side, doing all they can for her. They are two remarkable boys that learned well from their father. Surrounding all of them, not surprisingly, was their family and friends. Paul would have been proud!
Godspeed, Paul. You will not soon be forgotten, but you will be greatly missed.